I didn’t intend to convey any hatred or dislike of females in that statement.
I meant The Nots played like mature, strong, confident women as opposed to the charming innocence and simplicity of Toxie. Maybe subconsciously I was thinking of the response in the GF9 Program Guide from Cecilia from Cecilia and the Sauerkrauts. When asked for a “…tip for girls in rock bands” she replied, “Don’t act like girls.”
http://www.goner-records.com/gonerfest/GF9ProgramGuide.pdf
In the future, I will be more mindful to choose my words more carefully. It’s good that you call “bullshit” on things that you see as being wrong and I hope you continue to be diligent in regards to examples of both misogyny and misandry.
“In the past quarter century, we exposed biases against other races and called it racism, and we exposed biases against women and called it sexism. Biases against men we call humor.”
—Warren Farrell, Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say