I didn't think that was harsh and you make some good points. Your post did change my mind a little in the sense that I shouldn't have any expectations and just control the one thing we can control which is making sure we're ready for the show. I also love your point about making a band sorry they put you on first by out-playing them. I always feel a sense of friendly competition at shows to help get myself motivated to play the best I can so I should just extend that to the times where we get the crappy spot in the lineup and use it as motivation rather than let it bother me so thanks for that!